Transform Your Relationship with Relational Life Therapy

Break free from old patterns and build a deeper, more connected partnership. RLT offers real tools, real change, and lasting intimacy.

Relational Life Therapy (RLT) at Double Diamonds

At Double Diamonds, we believe that every couple has the potential to build a deeply connected and fulfilling relationship. Our approach is rooted in Relational Life Therapy (RLT)—a revolutionary method that helps couples break destructive patterns, cultivate true intimacy, and build strong, lasting bonds.

Unlike traditional therapy, which often focuses on passive reflection, RLT is highly active, direct, and solution-focused. We guide couples toward real transformation, not just insight.

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Direct & Honest Approach

We don’t just listen; we challenge and guide you with compassionate truth-telling to break through relational barriers.

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Deep Healing & Accountability

We address past wounds and family patterns that shape your relationship while holding each partner accountable for creating change.

Skills-Based Communication Tools

Skills-Based Learning

Beyond talking about problems, RLT teaches practical tools for communication, emotional regulation, and conflict resolution.

Breaks Harmful Power Dynamics

Breaking Patriarchal Norms

Traditional gender roles often harm relationships. RLT helps couples break free from outdated power dynamics and create true partnership.

Rapid Effective Change

Rapid & Effective Change

This approach accelerates transformation by addressing root issues head-on instead of spending years in therapy.

Builds Lasting Intimacy

Strengthening Connection

We don’t just fix problems—we help you thrive, building intimacy, passion, and mutual respect.

How We Work

At Double Diamonds, we create a space where real change happens. Our coaching process is direct, compassionate, and built for transformation. Here's how we help couples grow:

Intensive Relationship Mapping

We quickly identify the core patterns and behaviors that are holding your relationship back—so we can focus on what truly matters.


Guided Skill Development

You’ll gain clear, actionable tools to improve communication, regulate emotions, resolve conflict, and reconnect with your partner.


Compassionate Confrontation

We speak the truth with empathy—helping you break through harmful relational habits and start showing up differently for each other.


Practice & Integration

Through structured exercises and real-time feedback, you’ll actively practice new ways of relating—until they become second nature.


Sustained Growth Support

We equip you with a roadmap for long-term connection—so the transformation lasts far beyond our sessions.

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What Makes Us Effective?

  • No More Stagnation

    Many couples feel stuck in endless cycles of conflict or emotional distance. Our structured, high-impact coaching gets results.

  • Tailored for Each Couple

    We don’t use a one-size-fits-all approach. We customize our work to fit your unique relationship.

  • Beyond Talk—Into Action

    Insight is great, but action is key. You’ll leave each session with practical strategies to implement immediately.

  • Real-Time Coaching

    We don’t just reflect on past fights—we teach you how to navigate conflicts as they happen.

  • Holistic & Lasting Transformation

    We go beyond quick fixes, helping you rebuild your relationship at its foundation for long-term success.